Although we have been relating all our life, we haven't been thoughtful about the contents. Only the results. It's not that we can become relational experts instantly.

Relatings are the ingredients that create, fill, and maintain relationship.
Because we don't separate relationship from it's ingredients, relationships operate on autopilot and often make us sick.

Because we're unaware of the complexity. We haven't been taught. Relationship takes on a three-part complexity. It is a delivery system, it is something that happens between two or more people, and finally it adds a hidden element: glue.

No matter how you found us we're glad your'e here. Some of us search for deeper answers to what ails us. We're here because we've found some of those answers and want you to find them too.

So why are we so casual about it?

We all know that relationships make life worth living. But when we stop to think about them or what they are made of, most of us simply do not know.

Most think they are the same. But, are nouns and verbs the same? A quick english class: Nouns name, verbs act.

Most tell us about here. And most tell us about there. Few tell us how to get from here to there.

It's our contention that every story has a backstory and that without the backstory we are at a serious disadvantage (in danger).

We often think about healing relationship but that's like closing the barn door after the horse got away. A relationship is a state is a noun. A relationship is nothing more than the expression of what fills it. Without an awareness of this our relationships are going to be chaotic.